Four things i wish i knew in my early 20s happiness edition but everyone is friendly but you have to go first i have never regretted taking the social initiative to arrange a board games night or invite friends out to dinner or want someone out on a date we all get caught up in our own little world sometimes so it's best to be the first to make a move if you want something to happen two similarly the sting of rejection is way better than the pain of regret so shoot your shot three you actually can choose to be satisfied regardless of what you've done i tend to get to the end of a workday and i have this feeling of ah i could have done more feeling dissatisfied with what i've done doesn't actually change what i've done at all and so what i've realized is that regardless of what i've happened to have accomplished that day or done that day i actually just can simply choose to be satisfied with what i've done the reality is the same i just feel way better as a result and four move towards things that energize you rather than drain you and this is a question i find so helpful whenever i'm making any kind of decision will this be likely to energize me or will it be likely to drain me